Chestnut63's Journal, 31 Aug 22

Thanks for your support Jonty 

Tenacious thanks for your support.  

Getting rid of the toxic people will reduce stress significantly and you will be much less likely to use drink and food as a release. But I would suggest that you try not to do too much at once. Focus on the thing that is bothering you the most first! 

Anne thank you for your words, toxic person is my sister not easy to get rid off. 

Springer thank you for your support.  

all u can do chestnut if it's family is to avoid as much as possible xx 

Thank you for your support Addison, unfortunately we are still sorting out my late Mother's estate, when that is finished will cut my sister out of my life 

Take me with you on your journey I’ve lost my way 

Chestnut, You have my sympathies on the loss of your mother. I lost both my parents 8 years ago & my (estranged) brother is STILL fighting over the money. Death in the family = instant asshole. Although he always was one. It just gets worse. I wish you luck with your sister. 🤞 

This is a good thing all around if it's been a long time coming. When I started only surrounding myself with people who made my life a happier place I got to sort some things inside myself that weren't healthy. I found without the focus on others negativity I could really make focused positive changes internally that ended up making me a better wife and friend, and a friend to myself. It's hard. I wish you nothing but luck and love. 💕 

Gosh it’s hard when it’s a family member. Make sure to remind yourself every day that you are a kind, loving and generous person with a brilliant sense of humor and a lot of people who do appreciate you 😊 

Thank you for your support Nadia, Hazel, jC and nutrical , unfortunately Nadia I can't take anyone on my journey got sort myself Out first one step at a time but support or advice is welcomed 

Thank you for your support Suma 

Thank you for your support Schmetterlinge 

Anne I am afraid I let my emotions take control instead of my sensible head and rising above it 

That comes from fathers side god bless his soul. 

I have no suggestions, but I believe in you. Thank you for coming back to us. 

I liked your horse painting post. That was precious, you didn’t let your passion die.  

U can do it, kind sir🤙🏽 

Acomandr thank you for your kind comment. Unfortunately my stress levels are way to high