legendgary's Journal, 23 Apr 21

Oh no...................the heartbreak diet. Stay focused! 

Obviously she doesn't appreciate what she has got..... She will be sorry when she finds out the grass isn't greener.. Keep your chin up, you can do better and will do better!  

It doesn't matter what size you are, no one deserves that kind of treatment. She agreed to love you for better or worse and there's a lot worse than being a bit overweight! You should drop some extra weight right now. The extra weight being your wife! You don't need to lose weight to gain confidence. You're worth it already. 🥰 

Oh , I’m so sorry 😞 I know exactly how that kind of betrayal feels ....but you will find & you deserve sooooo much better ! 

Hi Legendgary, sorry to hear your bad news. Just think of it this way. Her loss.. Now you must concentrate on yourself, stay strong and well. If you have Children put them first. And enjoy your time with them every second is so precious. Take a long time to find the right person. Please don't rush into anything. Maybe do things you haven't done in a long time, or try something new. Good luck with your new journey through life. Stay happy. If you have problems your here many people will be delighted to help you. Best wishes Mel. 😊 

I totally agree with previous comments, I have been through betrayal and it is a painful process to go through, but you are strong and will come out the other side a more confident and positive person, we all have someone waiting for us who will cherish us as we are and yours is out there too somewhere...don't rush, give yourself time and one day it will just happen.. 

sorry to hear ur bad news. I hope u become happy with ur own self then u can move on to better thing's. good luck on ur journey.xx 

All the best, bud. I know its not easy. xxx 

Well said. keep positive! 

I lost lots when my husband left. When he came to pick up the children he asked if I'd been ill! First time he'd noticed me in ages. 

heartache is the perfect fuel for weightloss, trust me, I know!  

Keep strong. You can do it x 

Good for you! She doesn’t deserve your time or energy. Hold your head high and focus on you x 

Thank you guys for all of your kind comments, seems like there really is some great people on here! 🙂😎 Check out my most recent diary entry, I was quite surprised!