cindylynnwho's Journal, 12 Aug 23

Lol 😂 

Don't let anyone other than doctors tell you what your weight should be. Sometimes less healthy people criticize healthy people for being healthy. It is most common among friends and family that somehow feel threatened by your self improvement. That is their problem, not yours. I just grin, when I hear the seemingly well intended advice, because I've learned something important about that person. Thin shaming exists too. 

Agree penderg, and I still have people telling me that I’m too thin sometimes and I ignore them… but at the time I decided maybe they were right, that 120 didn’t look as good on me as 130 does, now that I’m older  

Cindy. I think you look good at your current weight. Although you are not that old, in my opinion really thin older women sometimes don't look as healthy. It also ages you, if you look too thin. My sister told me I shouldn't lose any more weight & she wasn't being mean. You look healthy & fit.  

:) this is hilarious. Good old dogs sabotaging your gains 

Thank you, Sherry! So nice of you to say!! I agree skinniness can seem aging for some of us and that’s the thought I was having when I decided 120 didn’t look as good on me as it used to. Honestly I’ve been on the fence for months about losing those last 5 lbs again. I consider my goal range to be between 130-135. I’m about 135-137 now and part of me would like to get back to 130 for my wedding. But the other part of me wants to eat snacks and relax 😂 my weight is not unhealthy and my fiancé isn’t at his preferred weight either. But it is fun to look great 😁  

Wayne 😂😂 that’s what we get for having three naughty dogs!  

Through working out I have gained muscle in 30 years since weighing in the 120's so 135 for me would be about 25% bodyfat which is a healthy rate. You have to do what feels comfortable for you 

Cindylynn, I think you look great! Do you mind if I ask how tall you are? Thanks :) 

Abadan’s I haven’t paid close enough attention to my bf% lately. Last time I checked it was a little under 25. I’ll have to look again, thanks for the reminder  

I was trying to say “abbadabba” but autocorrect kept making new names for you!  

Thank you, granby! I’m 5’6”  

I think you look perfect. Can’t wait to see the wedding dress pics. Did you decide to go sleeveless? Im so hoping so. You may have told me before im a bit brain foggy right now. 

Aww thank you YOH and yes I did decide to go strapless  

Whoop whoop!!!!! Gonna be so gorgeous dont forget to post pics! 

Aww thanks YOH I will