Chestnut63's Journal, 07 Jun 20

Thank you chestnut❣️ And protect your personal information  

Moops you are so wise, i have said things that i maybe i shouldn't have said, but i do move on, not like others , you are a Angel 

Not everyone is capable of that Chestnut. 💞💞💞 

Moops as always you are right there is a never cycle💞💞💞 

Ending cycle 

Chestnut, Like I have said before I think you think too much.  

I think chestnut is reminding us of healthy online habits. A few days ago I was baselessly accused of hacking a histrionic member’s Facebook(even though she admits she never revealed her full name), of cyberbullying (creating fake FatSecret accounts to harass her) and of cyberstalking (flying to my hometown to stalk this crazy member who was visiting there, this member has been accusing me of this since Nov). Many FatSecret members called me and a few other members horrid things agreeing in support of this histrionic member. Yesterday a long time member revealed she is real friends with one of the owners of the accounts whom this histrionic member claims to be me. It’s a good reminder for everyone to fact check and not promote lies.  

Chestnut - I fear you have too much time on your hands for introverted thoughts. Try not to worry about others behaviour as there is not always anything that can be done about idiots. Remember - never argue with an idiot for he is doing the same.... With regard to online etiquette, I think that is something which should be burned into kids brains at school. Too often people jump to conclusions - usually the wrong ones; misinterpret something because they dont read it properly; or just simply want to be rude and obnoxious to others for some perverted pleasure they seem to take. Hmm talking of perverted pleasure....NO - before YOU jump to a conclusion about what I was going to say - I was simply wondering what to have with a spoonful of rice pudding as I was once called an 'odd-ball' for putting Maple Syrup on rice pudding. That was just because the person commenting does not like maple syrup! Let's all vow to be nice when we are online and not to tease chestnut. (You know I am joking, don't you?) 

Moopie, is this person still on this site?  

Yes 

Wowzers Moopie, that's some really freaky stuff that been happening. That must have been awful being targeted like that. Really hope it all blows over going forward x 

Pebbles, thanks but I’m not that special. I’m only 1 of about 10 FatSecret members that I’ve personally witnessed her target. I’m thinking since more members are seeing the truth now, they will be more mindful and think critically before they accept her lies and join in the juvenile behaviors of name calling and promoting false claims. 🤞🤞🤞 

Moops please don't under sale yourself you are special to me💞 

People i am sorry if it sounds a trivialising things sorry 

🌰 ❤️  

Moopie that doesn’t sound good and I don’t really understand what’s been going on if I’m honest but it’s clearly upset you if you let that happen they’ve won, on here you’ll always get a few that don’t see eye to eye so they exchange words but that’s up to them it’s not for any of the rest of us to start taking sides or getting involved best thing is don’t engage and move on to something else leave them to it In the end everyone on this site have common interests that’s health, well-being and exercise so it’s great when we meet people that share other interests as yourself makes new friendships. As for these Trolls like I say don’t engage as soon as you take the bait they have you hooked it’s the same as when people get into an argument then one starts shouting they’ve already lost the argument. You don’t have to listen to anything it’s only a site if it gets too much there’s always that button that helps it’s called delete! Because your life goes beyond social sites it’s what’s ever else is happening in it x  

Moops just read Paulw post and i agree in principal what he says, it would be silly for people to stop us having a bit of banter you know how much i enjoy it 🌰❤🐮 

I hear you moopie. Still it must have been highly unpleasant, especially when we all come on here to improve the quality of our lives in one way or another and not to experience drama...real life provides enough of that atm! Anyway glad it is better for you now. x 

👋🏽Chestnut, nice reflection🥰😍😘 Looks like a bunch of smart, wise, and wonderful people on your post! I will say that it is very unfortunate that a few crude, manipulative, obnoxious, and self-absorbed people - who apparently have no life beyond FS because they obviously spend almost all their waking moments imitating creative members, posting non-weight related personal trivia (even sexual activity!), and seeking mindless followers - can make an unpleasant experience for countless others who simply want encouragement and support to live better and healthier lives🤙🏼 

Agree with you paul, chestnut, pebble and especially acomandr.