cherry6y's Journal, 09 Sep 21

Bless you Cherry , no divorce is not easy for anyone. Great changes are happening & lines are being drawn in the sand where they weren’t before . Your son is going through this with you & it’s confusing for him . It will be ok , you sound like you’re a great mum & underneath it all he will know this . Take care & try not to be too hard on yourself xx 

Teenagers!! Yes, he will be going through it and it's a confusing time for everyone but he is also a typical teenager who will play you off against each other ...it's totally normal Cherry, you are both going to get through this and you are going to be stronger for it, you're a good mum and don't u think otherwise! Baby steps, day by day, youl get there, big hugs and love 🤗❤️ 

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oh bless. you just need to stay strong for the both of you. it will all work out in the end. sending hug 🫂  

Yes, it's hard for you now, but it will pass. Everything will be good! 

Aw cherry it's a difficult time for everyone involved they are never a nice thing to go through. In times like these you need to take a few steps back some nice deep breaths and take everything one step at a time. A quote I have for this situation is choices made in anger cannot be undone and the image I found associated with that is a wolf leaping towards a person near the edge of a mountain essentially dooming them both. Teenagers are difficult as they are and I quite agree with booty where they will definitely use this to their advantage. Stay strong remember to try and breathe, analyse and assess before reacting (I know it's a lot easier said then done) especially in this difficult time. Sending lots of well wishes and positive vibes your way hoping you pull through  

Oh my goodness. I have been at work today and have finished now. I just looked at my messages from you all..thank you so much ,you are all so lovely 🥰...Your support is amazing and means so much . I have had a talk with my boy and we are all good. I think in a way its cleared the air. I don't want either of us to bottle things up, it's not healthy 🙂...honestly..there are no books that teach this are there ? Lots of love and hugs to all you amazing people. Have a good weekend xxx