heatherboardman's Journal, 10 Dec 23

I ‘forgot’ to weigh myself 

Well done Heather 🤩 

Thank u, good luck on ur weigh in, xx 

Good job! 💃 

So happy for u ❤️ 

Oh my love my mother died 3 days after my 21st birthday so I understand 100%. Time and places never seem the same again I talk about Mummy nearly everyday now Jim is added to the dreaded list. So life is so unfair at times. Love and very best wishes Merry Mel 🤩  

Hi Heatherboardaman, not good. Need to work, which is OK. But a friend of mine is coming to look at the car. The big BUT is Cheryl, his daughter is trying to take it from me to sell in the next town where she lives. She is now not coming to collect it. She is sending out someone else. So they can have the money. ( They been her and her sister Claire) They are holding all the accesses until after the funeral as Claire unfortunately is next of kin. I didn't marry Jim, so my hands are tied. He didn't make a will. So all is going wrong. Merry Mel 😍  

Is the flat urs Mel?? Why would they take everything from u?? U should all be supporting each other it's heart breaking xx 

Hi Heather no we privately rent but that's OK. I found out today I cannot sell the car because Jim has died I need some sort of documents so it's bought legally. Everything is tits up!!! How are you? Love Merry Mel 🤩  

It would of been my mums b/day today, iv spoken to my brother n we talked about mum, which is good I miss her so much its been 4 years but feels like a lot less, my heart goes out to u Mel, its good u have good friends to help u through, maybe when the funeral is over then things with the girls might settle down, u were with Jim a long time n they can't go steaming in telling u what to do xx 

Hi Heather, I miss Nummy too. Its 44 years ago but like you say it feels like yesterday, with Jim gone too it seemes it never ending. Love and hugs 🫂 to you.xx 

Good job! 

congratulations to you