Snowie, does heat help your back? Or Epsom salt bath? These are the things i do for my bulging discs and seems to help a bit. Im so sorry for the fear of your husband. I understand your situation but i sure do wish for you a peaceful life. I lived in turmoil and fear for a long time when i was younger and the peace i live in now is something i dont take for granted and am so grateful for. Good luck with the repairman today and happy thanksgiving sweet girl.