Wow, yes, I think anyone would be hurt by that comment.
16 Nov 23 by member: 3dox
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I don't like that. Does it make a difference if you tell him that his words are hurtful?
16 Nov 23 by member: JC_suburbangothcatmom
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Of course your feelings are hurt! That is an insensitive comment to make but again, sadly I’m not surprised by his behavior. I pray for you to have some peace in your life and hope that you get enough support here to help you feel better about yourself! 💜💜🙏💜🙏
16 Nov 23 by member: Diana 1234
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Ms. Snow I am sending you positive vibes to create self-love armor so those hateful comments bounce off of you with no damage. You don't need validation from anyone, To quote my friends on here....nobody loves you like you do. Don't let him win by allowing him to steal your joy.
16 Nov 23 by member: debrafrederick
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Snow, your worth can not be measured by an insensitive, unfeeling person. Hard as it is, try to ignore him. None of us look like we did in our 20's. The goal should be to look the best we can at that moment....even if we weigh more than we'd like.
16 Nov 23 by member: SherryeB
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16 Nov 23 by member: sk.17
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You are beautiful just the way you are ❤️
16 Nov 23 by member: rcguenth
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You have already explained his irrational behavior and thought processes. And that you cannot reason with him most of the time. So this is just more of the same and dare I say it, the devil in him trying to provoke you. Time to say nothing, get out of the house and do something that brings you joy and peace.
16 Nov 23 by member: RhumbaGirl
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You know Snow, he's the one with the problem, not you. Well, except that you live with the hateful old grouch. When I encounter mean, angry people like him, I always think how awful it must be to be that person, to live life always angry and unhappy and hateful. You are beautiful just as you are, inside and out, and nothing he can say to you can ever change that. 💚💜💛
16 Nov 23 by member: shirfleur 1
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He sounds like an idiot!💗
16 Nov 23 by member: collpeanut13
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honestly, it sounds like he's being abusive.
16 Nov 23 by member: corinneturner
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He is abusive Coll & Corinne, both physically and emotionally.
16 Nov 23 by member: shirfleur 1
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No way babes. Dump the dead weight and choose happiness. You deserve so much better.
16 Nov 23 by member: AuntSinge
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He needs a tune-up himself. Like a frontal lobotomy or some sensitivity training.
16 Nov 23 by member: -MorticiaAddams
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Aw snow White I live in England, I wish I could pack u up and fetch u here to live with me and my family, ud never have to do anything, ud never be cold n hungry and ud be loved sooooo much. Reading ur posts have made me cry, sending lots of love to u xx
16 Nov 23 by member: heatherboardman
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YOU have to lose weight for YOU. Stay focused on YOUR goals. Don’t fret about what others (including your spouse) say. I weigh 125 lbs. Ten more pounds to go. My husband prefers me at 130. I know what I want to look like. I’m 69 years old & yes wrinkled. He still loves me though. STAY FOCUSED
16 Nov 23 by member: cschofield54
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Snow-white, I'm sorry for my first comment. I went back and read your other posts. I'm sending you love, because you don't need advice since you have made some kind of peace with the hell you're dealing with, and turning to God for support. I wish I could fix it for you. So for now, just virtual hugs. 😔
16 Nov 23 by member: JC_suburbangothcatmom
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put Mr. rude on the same rations you eat. Stopped mine.
16 Nov 23 by member: Chewing Jello
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16 Nov 23 by member: ejeanmard
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Don’t ever let anyone make you feel less than you are! You are beautiful just the way God made you! If your partner is making you feel this way it doesn’t like he is the right guy for you. 🙏🏻
16 Nov 23 by member: Cassie907
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