jersey_di1's Journal, 30 Dec 19

Jersey please don’t leave the app, I love the support you give and your such a lovely girl and inspiration to me and I’m sure to many of us. Plus I love reading your journal and seeing the picture of the meals you make and the stunning picture of you in the black dress... I get chestnut comments come across rude at time but he doesn’t mean them in that way. I will ask him to rain it in. Don’t leave we can achieve our goals together. Pretty please 💞💕 

Bubblegum thank you. you are a wonderful girl and I loved your support on here but this guy is a sex pest and everything he writes in the end turns into dirty comment and I am tired of seeing it. I will miss you and few other people but I cant stay and keep seeing the stupid offensive comments. like, can he not have a normal conversation for once instead of trying it on?? I feel sorry for his girlfriend for lack of respect he gives her and I feel sorry for him if he needs to try so hard to get some kicks on here because he must be a very sad man trying to build himself up like this.. but it's too much for me. I wish you all the best and I know you will do amazing xxx 

Don’t let that Pratt spoil this site for you my friend. He also makes me sick. Bubblegum is right, your an inspiration to many and it would be a shame to see you go. I completely agree with what you say, don’t let a decent woman leave because of a sad old letch. Cool down and think it over. I just skip it’s posts. People like bubblegum are kind caring people and it would be such a shame if you left. 👍 

I’ve asked him to rain it in and I’m sure he will. Please don’t leave! you have so much more to give and teach us and I want to support you in your journey too. Just give it one last chance 💕💞  

isn't there a block option? maybe contact admin xxxx  

That’s a good idea.  

Ignore him, he's a sick old fuck..  

Don’t go because of some idiot... same happened to me on here a few years back so now I stay private and do my own thing to keep on track with my healthier eating😊 

I’m starting to think going private’s is the best way too 💞💕 

Jersey babe, I’ve decided to get back onto healthy eating from tomorrow and would love it if you could stay on this app so we can continue our journey together...💕💞 

I agree, sometimes I think this is a dating app, rather than an healthy eating app. I think from the post I have seen lately that some people are very lonely and believe they have no self worth. Chestnut get your rocks off, I'm sure wives and girlfriends and boyfriends would have said something by now, after all from what I have seen you have been very complimentary to us women, let's put it this way if he wasn't.....we would let him know x 

Funnyonion it's not about being complimentary or not, the problem I have is with comments which are simply dirty and sexually inappropriate. and I give my hand that his girlfriend or partners of women who indulge him have seen any of those conversations as I dont think they would be ok with them. that is my point. and even if I go private I still will see all posts on here which I used to use for inspiration and now most of them I see make me feel distaste. lets get back to what this app is all about, the hard work that is losing weight and support this community offers! and if people need the dirty old men comments in their life.. well the site offers direct messages.  

I don’t have the option for direct messaging. I just use the app on my ipad. Jersey, I’m in complete and utter agreement with you.  

Chestnut is just a jokester. Just scroll past, like I do when I see members I don’t like. Ask him directly if he’s bothering you to not comment on your stuff or follow you, to me he’s harmless fun. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ 

mrgscott3 thanks x I sound like a moaning bitch but it's not one or two comments, its relentless.. but I suppose I cant make people stop so my only choice would be to take myself out of situation that is causing an issue for me. x Btw direct messages are only available on desktop version when you use computers or laptops.  

Like bubblegum said, don’t go. The FS admins don’t monitor what is said in the threads. Chestnut has told me before if I feel like he crossed boundaries to tell him and he’ll leave me alone, but so far our open chats have been in humor. I wouldn’t leave bc some stranger doesn’t share the same humor. You’re gorgeous and have so goals to get. Stay please❣️💕💕💕 

I ignore. Just like the ones in real life. 

@jersey, I think if you change your views to “following” that will solve 90% of the issue. No guarantees, this app still throws lots of curveballs at me. 

Hey jersey, no, your not a moaning anything! Your only saying what other people think. That sad git makes me feel physically sick. Wake up ladies, he’s not funny or harmless his comments are disgusting and degrading. Nasty old lonely sick pervert . Stick around jersey, we need good honest people on here. This journey is tough enough so ignore the sicko and concentrate hitting your goal with the help and support from genuine people. x 👍  

I’m male. But only on here for inspired meals/menus and how some are doing in weight loss/gain battle. Not at all interested in anything else. Can fellow FS users post low sodium meals if they have them 🙈