jersey_di1's Journal, 10 Mar 19

Some of you people are just crazy. It is already so hard to sustain healthy diet and to lose weight and yet you try to make it even harder! All I have been seeing recently is people arguing, nasty comments instead of constructive advice and slim shaming! How can you put someone down just because they have 3kg to loose instead of 30?? It is not their fault that you are fat, and it is their own journey and as important as yours so why belittle it??
Why not support each other, give advice from own experience rather than what you googled and why oh why so many people are so judgemental??!! No one is perfect and no one knows it all. And being honest? you didn't get to be near or over 100kg by eating salad so why are you putting down others in their efforts? Share you own experience, give helpful advice and more importantly support each others!!!
I am happy for each and every pound I see people lose on here and yet so many people are jealous and nasty and make their mission to make it harder for others!
Why??!! This site was supposed to help us lose weight NOT shame us! So shame on YOU!
If you haven't got anything helpful to say, say nothing!
It hurts me how many nasty vicious people are out there.. there is a saying people use 'skinny bitch ' but looks like fat bitches are real too..
I wish this site allowed you to block people you don't want to see as I stops me from using it

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I really wish there was a block button too! Seeing a lot of passive aggressive comments too. f***s me off 
10 Mar 19 by member: Yasmine15585
Is this true? 😮I don't know but I see that the community in Fs is much better than communities in Social Media, I don't know maybe I didn't come across anyone. But if that does not make them important people, complete your way unaffected. We deserve encouragement. I support you and hope to reach your goal soon.💪👍 
10 Mar 19 by member: Nadeen 31
That’s what I do. Never condemn or criticise. From my own experience loosing weight and then keeping it off is a very hard road to follow. You and everyone else will only receive positive support and encouragement from me. Just focus on your goal, embrace those of us that support you and switch off to any negative or critical air heads. 
10 Mar 19 by member: Jimporter
I have had comments aimed at me not malicious but have had negative affects on my diet but if people make comments on people’s journals I wouldn’t be surprised if someone snaps back it’s human nature  
10 Mar 19 by member: razor123ray
I saw your post and it made me feel sad. I can honestly say that I have been lucky enough not to have seen or experienced any of the negativity you write about. I'm not saying that there isn't any negativity out there, just that I have not come across it. Anyway, if I may quote an old song "You got to ac-cent-tchu-ate the positive, E-lim-i-nate the negative, And latch on to the affirmative. Don't mess with Mr. In-Between" :-) 
10 Mar 19 by member: bestbefore1989
Thank you, I always feel awkward discussing my weight as all I get "ah there's nothing to you' or 'you're crazy to diet' etc my come back is always, you haven't seen me naked and I'm uncomfortable...so thank you again for making me feel u have a right to talk freely about my body issue xxxx 
10 Mar 19 by member: wee_ems
I agree, as I pointed out on Wee_ems thread not so long back.  
10 Mar 19 by member: Mindfull_Body
After reading your profile I can truly say I agree 100%. It has to be a life style change that works. :) 
10 Mar 19 by member: Mindfull_Body
Wee ems, you are wonderful and in my opinion I don't think (looking at your profile pic) you need to lose any weight you actually look beautiful, alot of people on here including me strive to look like you. Unfortunatly we don't. We all have to look comfortable in our own skin and if you don't feel comfortable in your own then let us all help you!!! let's face it we are own worse enemy when it comes to complements you have my support Take care 😀🍀🍀🍀 
10 Mar 19 by member: Funnyonion
Av nah a clu wit bein Scottish huz tae dae way this convo Like but a huv tae admit nuhin Lyk a gud auld pizza crunch oan a cheat day gawni huv wan the mora noo 
10 Mar 19 by member: hazelsheehan
Ar yi evin Scottish if yi huvny hud a botal ae MD doon the park way yur palls at 16 x x x 
10 Mar 19 by member: hazelsheehan
This last wee bit is going to be the hardest to get rid of it’s not been easy up until now but I think the real work starts now as I have got to 51k before and just fell bk to bad habits x x  
10 Mar 19 by member: hazelsheehan
I agree! This site isn’t what it used to be, you used to get ‘support’ weather you’d lost or gained weight! I miss some of the old users that don’t come on here any more as it used to be such a great site to use.  
13 Mar 19 by member: r4chy

     
 

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