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I've been somewhat nauseated since Saturday. It gets a little better each day but when I am doing things very long it comes back. The first couple of days I thought it must be food poisoning but couldn't figure out what caused it. Now I'd just call it a little upset stomach. I realize it could be nerves from my sister's funeral, our daughter and hubby staying here for several days (she's critical of me) and facing my nephews and their wives after the debacle of me getting some things from my sister's house. I gave my nephew $1,000.00 yesterday to go towards my sister's funeral. It was a hard day, especially with our son's plot next to her.
Last night my husband asked me how much weight I have lost, seeming concerned. I told him I weighed 129 in December and weigh about 121 now so that is reasonable for 4 months, and I had eaten plenty of dinner tonight. He said he would rather have me fat than sick. I'm not sure of his total meaning and I'm sure not going to challenge him because it would turn out badly for me if I did. On the surface, it sounds solicitous but isn't there a little barb in there? Maybe I'm too sensitive since some years ago at 118 he told me I was fat.
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Hope you feel better soon. Stress could be the cause, but you are under quite a bit of stress a great deal of the time. I've been puzzling over your husband's comment and wonder if perhaps going to your sister's funeral has gotten him to thinking about what life would be like if he lost you. It's possible.
22 Apr 21 by member: rhontique
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Snow, thinking of you and praying for you 🙏🏽💗
22 Apr 21 by member: Daughter of the_King
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When I’m stressed I get an upset stomach. I can rather not eat anything without feeling like I’m going to hurl OR I can eat only comfort foods and eat a ton of them because it’s the only thing that settles the stomach. I’m quite sensitive myself and try to find the reasoning behind words. Maybe there was a barb there and maybe not. Since you can’t ask him it would probably be best to consider it well meaning concern. BUT from the underlying message here and on another post I’ll give you the same offer. IF you ever need help, to talk, vent etc please feel free to message me. Let me know so I can check my messages. I can also send my email or phone number so if you need to reach me quickly. IF it’s the hubby then you DO have options. IF it’s your daughter then that’s a hard one if she has cancer. So many emotions involved there and I myself would probably distance myself somewhat but not completely. That’s just me though and I know every person and every situation is different. And for the record... I don’t think I’ve ever seen a single person around 120# and thought they were fat. Now if they were 3’ tall maybe. One of my daughters is barely 5’, 103# and a bean pole! At 5’3” and 107 I looked sick. At 118-125 I got many compliments on how I looked. I feel better in that range too. Do you feel good where you are? That and if you are healthy are the most important.
27 Apr 21 by member: peeperjj
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