mamamc7's Journal, 30 Nov 18

Sorry this may be long, boring and nonsense, but I just had a moment of clarity and need to vent...
We will call this post “BECOMING A MINIMALIST!”


So recently I moved into my dads house. Put 99% of our belongings in storage and donated truck loads of stuff to goodwill and still our unit is overflowing. Today I looked around my small over crowded room and saw a tee that I bought over summer and have only worn once... then I looked at our overflowing closets... it actually made me feel ill... like this over abundance of “stuff” we have and there are people bare foot and cold... or hungry. I just want to give it all away. I want to live a simpler life. I don’t want this burden of having so much stuff, too much stuff. I had no idea these material things could be holding me back in my journey to a healthier me. It is very true that you become a slave to your belongings... but why? Why have so much clothes that you can’t possibly put them all away? Why have too many shoes for your shoe rack...

So not only do I plan to shed many pounds and get healthier while living at my dads, I now plan to rid myself of these material things that weigh me down and work on my inner happiness.

Anyone here a minimalist? What’s your advice, what’s the best and first thing you would purge in a home?

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Good idea! I will make a list, challenge myself to get rid of at least one bag of clothes and shoes today!! I actually thought about buying some books or magazines on the topic, but DUH, defeats the less stuff lifestyle I want!!! Soooo, I’ll be checking the library for any books on it. Because I really want to do this right and make it stick... because in the long run my goal is to save money and build a custom container home on a plot of land!!  
30 Nov 18 by member: mamamc7
If you haven’t worn in over a year, get rid of it. Good time of year to donate clothing to Goodwill, Salvation Army, Woman’s Crisis Center, homeless shelter. God Bless 
30 Nov 18 by member: Chow moore
I have two seasonal wardrobes - usually only 8-10 tops and 3-4 bottoms... knowing that the colors and patterns are complimentary (think: Garanimals)... every now-and-then I take two items to Goodwill, and pick up two more (keep it fresh, without increasing volume in my closet). 
30 Nov 18 by member: From371to184
@from371 Great advice. I actually have thought about just buying the same pants I know I like and get rid of it all and then just buy tops I like in a few colors and keep things simple. The amount of clothes I have and don’t wear is kind of embarrassing... 😔 
30 Nov 18 by member: mamamc7
check out theminimalists.com for some inspiration. I started with some 30 day challenges (1 item on day 1, 2 items on day 2 and so on). I try to do that once a year, but it also helps to kick start the process and mind set. The Marie Kondo approach is also helpful - pick up each item and ask if it brings you joy, if not, say thank you to it and then get rid of it! It helps for those of us who have sentimental attachment to some things. Good luck!  
30 Nov 18 by member: 40yearoldmom
@chow Yes, I will start with those clothes and shoes!!! I’ll try to find a woman’s shelter locally to donate!!  
30 Nov 18 by member: mamamc7
Just wanna throw this out there: Goodwill is a for profit company with enormous profits. Salvation Army and smaller donation-based stores are often not for profit. 
30 Nov 18 by member: ladyalchemist74
One thing I do, is to get rid of five things at a time. Example being my bathroom drawers were stuffed with too much crap. So I committed to removing five items straight to the trash weekly. Sure it took me weeks but I can open a drawer now and feel good about them. I actually feel relieved and pleased with myself! Baby 👶 steps 
30 Nov 18 by member: Chow moore
I also have to many things that I need to get rid of  
30 Nov 18 by member: Keilin_4
I moved to an island, brought 1 big suitcase, 1 small carry-on, and mailed 1 box of books and bits of precious. It was an all at once sort of thing for me. 
30 Nov 18 by member: LZenn
My family used to practice, if you did not wear it or use it in the past year it got donated! Salvation Army will also come and pick up from your home.  
30 Nov 18 by member: mannypacker
I'm not what you would call a minimalist. However, two years ago, we sold our house, moved to one that is 1,000 square feet smaller, and donated a truckload of stuff to Salvation Army. I felt better. Still, I kept the things that put a smile on my face, such as our family photos and our Christmas decorations.  
30 Nov 18 by member: katybshopper
Never leave the 'cost' of holding onto something out of your mental process. Yeah, maybe someday you'll need that phone charger, or sweatshirt, or special whisk, but remember that buying a 'new' one exactly when you need it is often far cheaper at the end of the day then holding onto something.  
30 Nov 18 by member: JollyBill
i find it easier to get rid of “stuff” if I actually find a real person to give them to. Amongst my friends we seem to have a pipeline to great nieces, grandkids or others who at their stage in life still need gently used stuff. I also donate to women’s shelters. I swim everyday at the local Salvation Army (the worlds greatest Olympic size swimming pool with wonderful neutrally warm water— another story.J. They keep a list of items that are in constant need for helping people furnish apartments or who have a need for household goods. Also senior retirement complexes are another place to donate items. Check with one in your area and see if they have a wish list for a specific client that they know has very little. 
30 Nov 18 by member: Kenna Morton
Yes I don’t like clutter, I like simple and bare 
30 Nov 18 by member: rosio19
Too much stuff gives me stress 
30 Nov 18 by member: rosio19
My car stresses me out but since it’s my office I get over it, I ignore it... but my house is simple and uncluttered 
30 Nov 18 by member: rosio19
I take bags of clothes to the donation box a couple of times a year. If I haven't worn it in a year, I put it in the bag. I need to do that with my shoes, too. I have many pairs that need to go into a bag and taken to the donation box. It does give me a lighter happier feeling to be able to close the closet doors instead of having stuff bulging out. So much neater. A neat space looks bigger, too. Good Luck! 
30 Nov 18 by member: rose2136
I've had decent luck selling some items on local facebook groups etc too. Not that I'm against donating but its a great way to make a little extra money if you need it. 
30 Nov 18 by member: Cody Rachel
I started with creating a wardrobe that you could mix and match multiple items into tons of different outfits. 
30 Nov 18 by member: Linjags

     
 

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