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just a quick note, Robert and I are 'no more', he called and cancelled the date for tomorrow and wants to persue a past relationship with some that lives 60 miles from here! I must admit it truely hurt and I just can't handle this type of heartache anymore, I am OFF MEN. I have been used and abused since I was young and for a while I put a wall up, it seems like when someone penetrates that wall and I think things will be different that I get hurt again and again. It will not happen anymore I will not allow it to. In the past this use to send me off on a binge of food and drink but not today. At first I was going to just go back to bed with the covers over my head, but when I started in that direction I thought 'why am I allowing someone elses actions (stupidity, I am a good catch!) affect me in a downer way?' so instead I took my dog for a long walk and it felt good.
I am not over this and I will not be over it for awhile, but I think I can handle it and I will get better. Thankfully the relationship did not develope into something deeper and more intimate but still it does definatly HURT and I just can't deal with this type of hurt again. There is no Prince out there for me. I've had my chance with my EX and I have 2 wonderful sons and one adopted one that are my treasure and thats all I need.
love to you all,
Joyce
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Sorry about the pain, but you are on a good path. Take care!
31 Jul 10 by member: Suzi161
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Men are such jerks! So sorry you are hurting. There IS a prince out there for you because you ARE a good catch! Keep feeling good about yourself and going out, like to the concert last night, and when you least expect it he will show up with the glass slipper. You may not recognize him at first but it will happen. Please note though that even though he's a prince he will still have jerk tendencies since he's male and it's just their nature. We learn to overlook the jerk parts when the prince part is predominate! Hang in there girl! Big hugs!!!!
31 Jul 10 by member: luckylady
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Buy yourself something sexy today anyway!!! Hugs!
31 Jul 10 by member: luckylady
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JM. I don't know you real well, but what I DO know is you have a huge heart, a great outlook and you do not need anyone to complete you ... what you need is someone who will add on to the greatness that you are. All good things will come in time. Continue to put youself first and all else will fall in place. You are a beautiful soul...keep it that way. Hugs
31 Jul 10 by member: CRyan
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Sherry, you made me laugh, thank you! yes men will be men!
Carrie thank you for your comment, oh gee I sure do hope we all get to met each other at a BIG FS BC get-together someday, I'm open to inviting you all here to FL come on down and lets parteee! Lowcarb style of course ;-) Thank you all for being here for me, I could not get through this without you!
31 Jul 10 by member: JMA312
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Men are more than jerks. So sorry. My grandma always used to tell me that I would have to kiss a lot of frogs before I would meet my prince.
Robert was definitely a frog...
01 Aug 10 by member: carbcount
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01 Aug 10 by member: jsfantome
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Shannon & Paula, LOL, you got that right! I won't even tell you what he emailed me yesterday, of course I didn't reply nor will I.
01 Aug 10 by member: JMA312
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